{"id":3522,"date":"2026-08-11T20:40:28","date_gmt":"2026-08-11T18:40:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intelligent-ritchie.85-214-17-68.plesk.page\/en\/guiding-your-child\/"},"modified":"2026-10-22T21:06:11","modified_gmt":"2026-10-22T19:06:11","slug":"guiding-your-child","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/intelligent-ritchie.85-214-17-68.plesk.page\/en\/guiding-your-child\/","title":{"rendered":"Guiding your child"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<section class=\"wp-block-group phero is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group wrap is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<p class=\"eyebrow wp-block-paragraph\">For you \u00b7 parents<\/p>\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading reveal met-dot\">How do you help your child choose without <span class=\"accent\">pushing<\/span>?<\/h1>\n\n\n<p class=\"lead reveal wp-block-paragraph\">Many parents want to give direction without taking over. Insight into your child&#8217;s talent gives you language for that conversation.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group phero-cta reveal is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons cta-btns is-layout-flex wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button btn btn-primary\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/intelligent-ritchie.85-214-17-68.plesk.page\/en\/your-options\/\">Take the me.scan \u00b7 <span data-prijs=\"onlineCoaching.intake.prijs\">\u20ac 109.50 incl. VAT<\/span> \u2192<\/a><\/div>\n<div class=\"wp-block-button btn btn-ghost\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"#oplevert\">What it gives you<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n<\/div>\n\n<\/div>\n\n<\/section>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"foto-band\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/intelligent-ritchie.85-214-17-68.plesk.page\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/sfeer-ouder-kind-laptop.jpg?v=1791227714\" alt=\"Father helping his son at the laptop\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<section class=\"wp-block-group sec is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group wrap is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group sec-head reveal is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<p class=\"eyebrow wp-block-paragraph\">Sound familiar?<\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading met-dot\">Where it often gets stuck<\/h2>\n\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group ow-lijst reveal is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group ow-kaart is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">You see more than your child does<\/h3>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But how do you say that without it feeling like steering?<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group ow-kaart is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The conversation stalls<\/h3>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I don&#8217;t know&#8221; is the most common answer. You&#8217;re missing a way in.<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group ow-kaart is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">You doubt your own judgement<\/h3>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Is this what my child wants, or what I want for my child?<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n\n<\/div>\n\n<\/div>\n\n<\/section>\n\n\n\n<section id=\"oplevert\" class=\"wp-block-group sec band-cream is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group wrap is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group sec-head reveal is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<p class=\"eyebrow wp-block-paragraph\">The payoff<\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading met-dot\">What the me.scan gives you here<\/h2>\n\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group opb-kolommen reveal ms-3a28d7e3 is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group opb-kolom ok-p is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list opb-lijst\">\n\n<li><span class=\"opb-check\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><svg width=\"12\" height=\"12\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M4 12.5l5 5L20 7\" stroke=\"#fff\" stroke-width=\"3\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/svg><\/span> <span><b>A shared language<\/b><p>You talk about talent instead of grades, performance or expectations.<\/p><\/span><\/li>\n\n\n<li><span class=\"opb-check\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><svg width=\"12\" height=\"12\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M4 12.5l5 5L20 7\" stroke=\"#fff\" stroke-width=\"3\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/svg><\/span> <span><b>The choice stays with your child<\/b><p>The profile is theirs. You are a conversation partner, not the decision-maker.<\/p><\/span><\/li>\n\n\n<li><span class=\"opb-check\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><svg width=\"12\" height=\"12\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M4 12.5l5 5L20 7\" stroke=\"#fff\" stroke-width=\"3\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"><\/svg><\/span> <span><b>Recognition on both sides<\/b><p>Often a child says: &#8220;that&#8217;s true&#8221; \u2013 and that opens up the conversation right away.<\/p><\/span><\/li>\n\n<\/ul>\n\n<\/div>\n\n<\/div>\n\n<\/div>\n\n<\/section>\n\n\n\n<section class=\"wp-block-group sec is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group wrap is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group pv-blok reveal is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<a class=\"rap-vb\" href=\"https:\/\/intelligent-ritchie.85-214-17-68.plesk.page\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/talentprofiel.pdf\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/intelligent-ritchie.85-214-17-68.plesk.page\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/vb-talentprofiel.jpg?v=1791972419\" alt=\"First page of the sample talent profile\" width=\"360\" height=\"316\"><span class=\"rap-vb-bij\">Talent profile \u00b7 example (pdf, 4 pages)<\/span><\/a>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group pv-tekst is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading met-dot\">What that looks like for your child<\/h3>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Your child gets good grades in science subjects, but says they don&#8217;t want to do anything with them. The profile shows where the energy really is \u2013 and sometimes that&#8217;s somewhere other than where the performance is. That opens up the conversation without you having to hold an opinion.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"pv-noot wp-block-paragraph\">Example profile \u2013 your outcome will of course be different.<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n\n<\/div>\n\n<\/div>\n\n<\/section>\n\n\n\n<section class=\"wp-block-group sec is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group wrap is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group sec-head reveal is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<p class=\"eyebrow wp-block-paragraph\">From practice<\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading met-dot\">What others say about it<\/h2>\n\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group ow-quote reveal is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<blockquote>&#8220;We now talk about what suits her, not about what she has to do.&#8221;<\/blockquote>\n\n\n<p class=\"owq-bron wp-block-paragraph\">Parent \u00b7 <i>[example quote]<\/i><\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n\n<\/div>\n\n<\/section>\n\n\n\n<section class=\"wp-block-group sec is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group wrap is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group sec-head reveal is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<p class=\"eyebrow wp-block-paragraph\">Other topics<\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading met-dot\">Is something else going on?<\/h2>\n\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"ow-andere reveal\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/intelligent-ritchie.85-214-17-68.plesk.page\/en\/study-choice\/\">Study choice<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/intelligent-ritchie.85-214-17-68.plesk.page\/en\/career-choice\/\">Career<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/intelligent-ritchie.85-214-17-68.plesk.page\/en\/personal-development\/\">Personal growth<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/intelligent-ritchie.85-214-17-68.plesk.page\/en\/balance-and-energy\/\">Balance<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/intelligent-ritchie.85-214-17-68.plesk.page\/en\/new-life-phase\/\">New phase<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/intelligent-ritchie.85-214-17-68.plesk.page\/en\/topics\/\">All topics<\/a> <\/div>\n\n<\/div>\n\n<\/section>\n\n\n\n<section id=\"begeleiding\" class=\"wp-block-group sec band-cream is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group wrap is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group sec-head reveal is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<p class=\"eyebrow wp-block-paragraph\">How it continues<\/p>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading met-dot\">After the scan you set your route<\/h2>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aime and a me.coach are not a choice between two packages. They are forms of support you can use separately and together, in the order that suits your question.<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"rt-start reveal\"> <span class=\"rt-label\">Two ways to begin<\/span> <h3>You start with Aime or with a coach<span class=\"dot\"><\/span><\/h3> <p>Both begin with the me.scan. Which one you choose depends on whether you want to look for yourself first, or would rather talk to a person straight away. You decide your route afterwards, and it is not fixed.<\/p> <div class=\"rt-instap\"> <div> <h4>Online, with Aime<\/h4> <p>You take the scan and Aime reads your outcome back to you. Together you work out whether there is a development need and what you need.<\/p> <p><a href=\"https:\/\/intelligent-ritchie.85-214-17-68.plesk.page\/en\/your-options\/\" class=\"btn btn-primary\">Start with the online intake \u00b7 <span data-prijs=\"onlineCoaching.intake.prijs\">\u20ac 109.50 incl. VAT<\/span><\/a><\/p> <\/div> <div> <h4>Directly with a coach<\/h4> <p>A coach takes the scan with you and discusses it in a conversation. You make your arrangements directly with the coach, at their own rate.<\/p> <p><a href=\"onze-coaches.html?specialisme=opvoeding\" class=\"btn btn-ghost\">Find a coach<\/a><\/p> <\/div> <\/div> <\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group rt-grid reveal is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<div class=\"rt-kaart rt-aime\"> <h3>On with Aime<\/h3> <span class=\"rt-sub\">Ongoing &middot; day and night<\/span> <p>Aime holds one direction and helps you embed new patterns, with exercises that suit your talent.<\/p> <ul class=\"rt-lijst\"> <li><span class=\"dot\"><\/span> Keeping your development goal sharp<\/li> <li><span class=\"dot\"><\/span> Practising in the practice room<\/li> <li><span class=\"dot\"><\/span> Nuggets and tips in between<\/li> <li><span class=\"dot\"><\/span> Your conversations stay yours<\/li> <\/ul> <\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"rt-kaart rt-coach\"> <h3>Working with a me.coach<\/h3> <span class=\"rt-sub\">A person &middot; by appointment<\/span> <p>A coach brings insight into the patterns beneath your profile: which ones help you and which ones hold you back. That comes with guidance that can go into depth.<\/p> <ul class=\"rt-lijst\"> <li><span class=\"dot\"><\/span> Helping and hindering patterns in view<\/li> <li><span class=\"dot\"><\/span> Probing what you cannot yet put into words<\/li> <li><span class=\"dot\"><\/span> How several themes connect<\/li> <li><span class=\"dot\"><\/span> Room for what only shows itself along the way<\/li> <\/ul> <\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"rt-kaart rt-beide\"> <h3>Both<\/h3> <span class=\"rt-sub\">The coach, with Aime alongside<\/span> <p>Your coach can bring Aime into the programme and set where she puts the focus. You keep working between conversations; the coach stays in control.<\/p> <ul class=\"rt-lijst\"> <li><span class=\"dot\"><\/span> The depth of a human being<\/li> <li><span class=\"dot\"><\/span> Daily progress with Aime<\/li> <li><span class=\"dot\"><\/span> One profile as the shared basis<\/li> <\/ul> <\/div>\n\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"rt-samen reveal wp-block-paragraph\"><b style=\"color:var(--ink)\">You can switch or add at any time.<\/b> You pay us for the me.scan; a coaching programme you arrange directly with your coach, at their own rate.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group rt-cta reveal is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons cta-btns is-layout-flex wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button btn btn-primary\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"onze-coaches.html?specialisme=opvoeding\">Coaches on this theme<\/a><\/div>\n<div class=\"wp-block-button btn btn-ghost\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/intelligent-ritchie.85-214-17-68.plesk.page\/en\/aime\/\">More about Aime<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n<\/div>\n\n<\/div>\n\n<\/section>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How do you help your child choose without pushing? 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